Follow your heart. God touches your heart not your mind, not your actions, He speaks to your heart. If you spend all the time doing stuff and ignoring your heart or living in denial of the true state of your heart, then even when God creates in you a clean heart, you'll not know it cos you'll be too busy doing and not paying attention... listen, it's not rocket science... just listen, calm down and listen. Remember though that to listen, you need to KNOW who or what you are listening to or listening out for...